We are just breezes passing in the wind.

 How can we talk so ill of a person? Is it because we know loved ones have to be there regardless because they are blood? Or is it that we hurt the ones closest to us because they know how we are. Regardless of how we think and feel we should look at ourselves. Sometimes our environment, thoughts and outlooks on life is what we make them. We can change even when the chips are against us. We have to realize that sometimes its us that fall short. Love is suppose to be unconditionally but often we are not able to do so. We have stipulations. If God did us the sameway where would we be. How would we continue to get blessed? Sometimes when life is hard and nothing goes right, its a test of your faith. Being strong willed and never turning your back on him pleases God. Not having selfish prayers but praying for others well being pleases God. We must first see ourselves as not being perfect but just who God made us and make the best of your situation. Sometimes when we pray for people they maybe praying the opposite prayer. For example: Your loved one is given months to live and you pray and ask God to keep them here. Do you know that the person you are praying for may pray the opposite prayer. They maybe ready to leave to be out of pain and hurt. So just ask that his willl be done. We often lose site when our emotions are involved. We try to control situations and can not even control ourselves. We must start with ourselves first then move on to changing the world. Helping your neighbor should come out of your heart and not because you feel you would get blessed but because its what God wants us to do. Just remember our bodies are vessels and we are going for a ride on this journey called life. Yes God sees all but not be so quick to be judgemental for you will be judged also.