Beloved

When do you realize the choices you make in life was already known by one person. God will remove you and place you where you should be. You should not force love but let it happen. So often we find ourselves telling others how bad they are at things or what we will not tolerate, yet we dont critique  ourselves the sameway. Just because you feel that you are a real person does not make everything you say the truth or how life really is. Know your place in life and stand firmly on your belief. By no means, will this journey be easy. Stand firm because running or turning your back on the ones that love you can be seen as defeat. Understand that words does not always have to be spoken. Sometimes silence rings truth.  To win an agrument apologize. Nothing is more important than a forgiven heart. And you must truly forgive. Dont bring it back up ever again. How would you feel if God constantly aired your darkest secrets when he was not pleased with you. Listening is a very powerful tool that is hard to maintain. We find ourselves always speaking but never listening. You are not the only one with an opinion that matters. Compromise is not if you dont do this my way than I'm leaving our situation.  If it is easy to leave a situation how hard did you really fight?